Skills

As God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and,
if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you must also forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.  And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in the one body. And be thankful.
Colossians 3: 12-15 

Re-member the skills you used when you handled conflict most effectively.

How can we learn together the skills
and spiritual practices that allow us
to reconcile our differences?