Interview with Bob Parisi

A: I stumbled upon the golf program when I was in the Jimmy Fund Clinic with my four-year-old daughter Maggie who was being treated for leukemia. Sean Fairley, who works for Jimmy Fund Golf, happened to be in the Clinic that day meeting with another parent and I overheard a little bit of their conversation. I approached Sean and started asking some questions. I really wanted to host a tournament to give back, but thought it would be best to wait until the smoke cleared with Maggie. My brother Fran finally convinced me go ahead with it. We set a goal of $10,000 and raised $38,500!

Q. What was your biggest challenge that first year?

A. Asking people for money! At the same time, Maggie was very heavy into the chemo program, in and out of the hospital, but we were fortunate to have the support of a wonderful family and network of friends. I think most people have seen the “Iron Workers” trailer that plays before movies in the theatres. One line from that has always stuck with me and helps me when soliciting sponsors, “a little bit goes a long way.” I try to stress to people that support of any kind will make a big difference in the lives of sick children.

Q. How is Maggie doing now?

A. Maggie completed her chemotherapy program last October, is doing well, and is now getting back to a normal childhood. The first two years of her treatment were extremely stressful to say the least and affected us all very deeply as a family. We transitioned from weekly to monthly visits last October during which Maggie would get bone density tests, ultrasounds, and blood work. The days leading up to the monthly visits were always anxiety ridden. It’s gotten easier though. Just this past week, out of the blue, Maggie asked her mom, “How much do you think I weigh now?” And it reminded us that we had a clinic visit the next day. Somehow we have been able to relax a little and consider our trips to the clinic as just routine.

Q. What advice would you give to someone who wants to start a fundraising golf tournament?

A. Do it! It’s one of the most rewarding projects I’ve ever done. It’s a great feeling to be able to give back to such a wonderful organization. Also, it’s important to put together a committee to help plan and execute the event and not try to do everything on your own.

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